Talk-It-Over

Talking through the message during the week helps you turn what God is saying into action steps. These talking points, questions, and scriptures are designed to help you take the next step. If you are leading a group through this guide, don’t feel like you have to answer every question. Pick out those questions that will stir up conversation and action among your group. 

The Holy Spirit's Coming

Acts 2:1-13

1 When the day of Pentecost had arrived, they were all together in one place. 2 Suddenly a sound like that of a violent rushing wind came from heaven, and it filled the whole house where they were staying. 3 They saw tongues like flames of fire that separated and rested on each one of them. 4 Then they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in different tongues, as the Spirit enabled them. 5 Now there were Jews staying in Jerusalem, devout people from every nation under heaven. 6 When this sound occurred, a crowd came together and was confused because each one heard them speaking in his own language. 7 They were astounded and amazed, saying, “Look, aren’t all these who are speaking Galileans? 8 How is it that each of us can hear them in our own native language? 9 Parthians, Medes, Elamites; those who live in Mesopotamia, in Judea and Cappadocia, Pontus and Asia, 10 Phrygia and Pamphylia, Egypt and the parts of Libya near Cyrene; visitors from Rome (both Jews and converts), 11 Cretans and Arabs—we hear them declaring the magnificent acts of God in our own tongues.” 12 They were all astounded and perplexed, saying to one another, “What does this mean?” 13 But some sneered and said, “They’re drunk on new wine.”

God was WITH us, now the Holy Spirit is IN us.

① His Coming was Providential (1:4-8, 2:1,16-21) The Spirit came at the right moment as fulfillment to God’s promise.

Prophets predicted the Spirit's coming.

Discuss the original meaning of Passover, Feast of First Fruits and of Pentecost then discuss their symbolism related to Jesus and the Holy Spirit.

② His Coming was Supernatural (2:2-13) When the Spirit came it was evident that it was God’s doing.

• A Supernatural Speak: Tongues
• A Supernatural Sound: Wind
• A Supernatural Sight: Fire

Discuss these manifestations and how they changed those disciples.

③ His Coming was Effectual (2:14-41) The Spirit is the enabling power of God.

Discuss how we as Christians, with the presence of the Holy Spirit, SHOULD display the following:

• Spirit-Generated Boldness (2:14)
• Spirit-Empowered Testimony (2:22-36)
• Spirit-Produced Conviction & Salvation (2:37-41)

But do we always display the Holy Spirit in these ways? If we don’t, does it mean we don’t have the Holy Spirit? That we are not saved? Then what should we do?

Next Steps

#1 – Thank God for sending His Spirit.

#2 – Ask the Holy Spirit to fill you in a fresh way.

• How can we pray for you?

Small Group Guidelines

Though we call these Basic Group Guidelines, these are also effective in all relationships and environments. We believe it is wise to observe these whether in a one-on-one conversation or in a group discussion.

• Guidelines give boundaries for people to operate within.

• They help with the flow and pace of the discussions.

• They help us value one another.

• They help people to be more comfortable sharing deep and meaningful things.

This is a Safe Group

Confidentiality is key, what is said in the group stays in the group. Be aware how you are affecting the environment: words, actions, and non-verbal communication. This needs to be a place where people feel comfortable opening up and sharing.

No Crosstalk

Be considerate of others as they are sharing. No side conversations, checking phone, responding to text or email, etc.

Listen

Let’s value one another by listening to what is being shared. Allow a pause after someone shares to allow them to finish and others to consider what was said. Eye contact and body posture play key roles in creating a positive or negative group environment.

No Rescuing or Fixing

We are not here to fix each other, Jesus does that part. Avoid the tendency to rescue when someone is struggling to get the words out or shares a struggle or conviction.

Use “I” Statements

It’s easy to talk about the issues of others or respond with “we”, “us”, “the church”. But for us to grow as disciples and build relationship we want to use “I” statements.

Don’t Overtalk

We want to create time for all members of the group to participate in the discussion. Be careful not to always be the first responder or regularly give long responses.

Fight for Relationship

It’s not “if” conflict or hurt feelings will happen, but “when”. We commit to fight for relationship with each other. Go to that person and share your struggle or seek wise advice if you are not sure how to handle the conflict.