Week of April 8, 2024
Talking through the message during the week helps you turn what God is saying into action steps. These talking points, questions, and scriptures are designed to help you take the next step. If you are leading a group through this guide, don’t feel like you have to answer every question. Pick out those questions that will stir up conversation and action among your group.
Discussion
Grace Over Retaliation
MATTHEW 5:38-42
38 “You have heard that it was said, An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. 39 But I tell you, don’t resist an evildoer. On the contrary, if anyone slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. 40 As for the one who wants to sue you and take away your shirt, let him have your coat as well. 41 And if anyone forces you to go one mile, go with him two. 42 Give to the one who asks you, and don’t turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.
GETTING TO KNOW YOU:
Share (if you dare to) situations that trigger your fleshly “get revenge” attitude.
① The Law & It’s Unlawful Expansion (v. 38) Human nature craves retaliation and revenge for offenses committed against us.
DISCUSSION: Discuss the difference between laws to be enforced by the government and those impacting personal behavior.
② The Lord & His Unrevengeful Exhortation (vs. 39-42) Jesus calls for a gracious and merciful response to offenses committed against us.
HOW ARE WE TO RESPONE WHEN OTHERS HURT US
➥ BE GRACIOUS WITH YOUR ATTITUDE & ACTIONS
Discuss how we need to (and how to actually do it) control our immediate physical responses when our emotions are boiling.
➥ BE GRACIOUS WITH YOUR ASSETS
Name something in your possession that is not a blessing and gift from God. Discuss how we are stewards of the resources God has provided to us. How should being a steward impact our graciousness?
➥ BE GRACIOUS WITH YOUR ASSISTANCE
Going beyond what is required – the second mile. Returning good for evil. Discuss how we should react to that neighbor, friend or family member who just won’t do what they have to do and they keep calling on you to “bail them out.”
➥ BE GRACIOUS WITH YOUR AID
When considering giving aid to someone who has hurt you, how do we avoid the feeling of being revengeful? Read and comment on Matthew 18:21-22.
DISCUSSION: We’ve all heard the phrase “Fool me once – shame on you. Fool me twice – shame on me.” How should we, as Christians, address this thought?
Talk to God
- How can we pray for you?
